ELLSWORTH — Everyone has personal belongings — a box of wedding photographs, a well-worn baseball glove, or perhaps a cherished yellow pie plate. While these items may not carry significant financial value, they often hold deep emotional meaning for individuals and their families.

On May 13, the ISU Extension will be at the Ellsworth Public Library located at 1549 Dewitt St. in Ellsworth to help individuals and families develop a plan. It will begin at 2 p.m.

This program, titled “Who Gets Grandma’s Yellow Pie Plate?” will help individuals and families thoughtfully prepare for the transfer of personal belongings. The program explores how everyday items — known as non-titled property — can become sources of misunderstanding or conflict if not addressed in advance.

Too often, the distribution of personal possessions is overlooked or assumed to “work itself out.” However, experiences shared by families and legal professionals suggest otherwise. Decisions about these items can be more challenging than dividing financial assets, especially when they are tied to memories, relationships, and family history.

Inheritance decisions rarely occur in isolation. They are shaped by complex family dynamics that may include siblings, spouses, stepfamilies, in-laws, adopted children, domestic partners, and close friends.

These relationships, combined with the emotional value attached to belongings, can make decision-making especially sensitive.

The issue frequently becomes most difficult during times of transition — such as the loss of a loved one, downsizing, or moving into assisted living, when emotions are already heightened. Without prior planning, families are often left to make difficult decisions under stress.

This program encourages participants to think ahead, communicate openly, and develop practical strategies for passing on personal possessions. Attendees will gain tools to:

• Identify meaningful belongings.

• Understand the emotional impact of inheritance decisions.

• Explore ways to document and communicate wishes.

• Reduce the potential for family conflict.

“What are the ‘pie plates’ in your life?” is a central question of the program, prompting participants to reflect on what matters most and how they can prepare for the future.

The program is designed for individuals of all ages and backgrounds. Regardless of financial status, culture, or family structure, everyone can benefit from planning ahead for the distribution of personal belongings.

The program will be held on from 2 to 3 p.m. May 13 at the Ellsworth Public Library.

There is no charge for the program, but registration is required to have materials provided for everyone. For more information or to register, contact Hamilton County Extension at 515-832-9597 or register online at https://go.iastate.edu/CHAAIW.