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Home For Christmas?
November 27, 2013 - Carrie Olson
I hate missing out. The last couple weeks have been kind of mopey for me, as I wasn't sure I was going to make it back to Iowa for the traditional holiday celebrations. As much as I have been acclimating to the area, I haven't missed a Thanksgiving or Christmas back home before. But flights at this time of year are crazy expensive. Of course, I don't have much to complain about as I have racked up quite a few frequent flier miles this year with weddings, a bridal shower, and my own nuptials. But the family traditions, that is something I have a hard time with missing. Turkey Day isn't as big of a deal for me, even though the Black Friday shopping with my mom and sister is something I always looked forward to. It's Christmas, well Christmas Eve to be exact. We attend Mass, have a big oyster stew dinner, open a few gifts and play games. This has been our tradition since I was a small child, and it hasn't changed. Sure I could Skype, but that would probably make me more homesick.
I spent days scouring sites for plane ticket costs. My favored non-stop route started at $900, which made me pretty sick to my stomach. It did not fit at all in with my short-term budgeting. But I had used up all my time off at work for the wedding, and I didn't have many other options. Come another time, my mom said, we can make it Christmas any time of the year. And as much as I wanted to believe her, I grumbled and groaned about how it wasn't the same. It wasn't.
New York is amazing at this time of year - with the lights, the shopping, the excitement, it's hard to find another place that feels as ... magical. But it's not home. All it takes is for me to hear "I'll Be Home For Christmas" or one of those similar tunes, and I just crumble.
Finally, in all my complaining, my husband offered that I just go home for the holidays. To buy my expensive ticket and get back to Iowa. He wanted me to know that if it meant that much to me, he could stay and spend Christmas alone. It's odd how a statement like that will change how you feel about the situation. I mean, I love my family and want to be with them, but this guy is my family and I couldn't imagine spending the holiday without him. And the fact that he made such a generous offer at his expense, well, yeah he's a pretty good guy. So we decided to stay put unless flights got a little cheaper. I wasn't blissful, but I knew I could manage to have a really great Christmas with new traditions with him.
And then I found out I had miscalculated how much time off I still had left, which left me with a few days of wiggle room. And then all of a sudden, an airline had a crazy sale, and we realized that we could go back - with some strict budgeting and tighter gift spending. We will be flying back to NYC on Christmas morning, but that is okay with me.
I'm so happy that I will be able to go back to Iowa, but now, I'm more psyched about this whole marriage deal I have. I got lucky and snagged a really great person to be my partner. He's willing to sacrifice his own happiness for me, and I'm pretty grateful. So while everyone is having their turkey celebrations, we will be heading off on a tiny honeymoon celebration together, which I'm pretty stoked about. So, I must say, the holidays are turning out to be pretty great after all. :)
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Pretty excited that I will be able to see this little munchkin in less than a month.